But it got me thinking about what I am looking for. Once I was told to make a God-centered list of what I look for in a duderino, and never waiver on it. Although some of these are goofy, most of them are actually pretty legit for me. I'm not looking right now, so to the dozens of potential suitors that will reply to this: I'll keep you in mind, but I can't make any promises right now. (I feel like I should mention that this was my attempt to be sarcastic via interweb).
Also, ladies that read this: I urge you to make your own list of things you look for- and not settle for anything less! No, men aren't perfect- they won't always say what men say in Nicholas Sparks books, and maybe they won't surprise us randomly with flowers (Hey bros, PS, we like that a LOT!) and they probably will never willingly want to talk about their feelings or whatever. But they're are certain things that aren't up for discussion.
So here's my list. I am looking for:
1. a Christ-follower. (2 Corinthians 6:14)
2. a long term relationship. I believe that the purpose of "dating" is to find one's mate. And I ain't playin' no games.
3. a believer in True Love Waits for a ring! (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5)4.
4. Be my best friend.
5. someone funny. Fo' real. If you can't make me laugh, then that's just crazy, because I laugh at things that aren't even funny. (Proverbs 17:22)
6. someone who will love me despite all the weird crap I do. (1 Peter 3:7)
7. A man to lovingly laugh at me. (1 Peter 3:7)
8. A man to step up to the responsibilities of being a man. (Ephesians 5:23)
9. Someone who wants to pray for me.
10. wants kids. Three-ish.
11. wants to adopt. This one deserves stars around it. It's kind of a big deal to me.
12. will keep me accountable.
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